COSÌ COM'È stages the director’s family in an “autofiction”: a worried mother, a sick father, and a disillusioned son – all victims of poor communication and the difficulties of understanding one another. The film begins with fragments of family videos and shifts into the present, which we experience from the parents’ point of view.

Cast

Emilia
Emilia Pisano
Francesco
Francesco Scarpelli
Antonello
Antonello Scarpelli
Lena
Janina Fautz
Marco
Claudio Caiolo
Così Com'è - Poster 1

As It Is

Antonello Scarpelli

  • Fiction
Production Country / Year
Germany, Italy 2024
Language
it., dt., engl. OF m. dt. UT
Format
DCP, Color, 84min
1.78:1 (16:9), Discrete 5.1
Original Title
Così Com'è

Director & Crew

Antonello Scarpelli 1

Antonello Scarpelli

Born in 1988 in Cosenza/Italy. Studied Art Graphics at the Academy of Fine Arts in Rome and Film Directing at the Academy of Media Arts Cologne. Active as a director.

Filmography

2011 Peppino Kurzfilm
2017 Tarda estate Spielfilm
2025 Così com'è Spielfilm 2025

“I left my home in Calabria to study directing at the Academy of Fine Arts in Rome and later at the Academy of Media Arts Cologne, where I have lived for 12 years. The distance from my parents created a space of unspoken things in our relationship. They often hid illnesses and problems from me, and I concealed my own financial and mental struggles, too. Their visits to Cologne unsettled me and made me feel unprepared for the future. This distant but intense connection we had during these meetings offered the potential for a cinematic narrative.

The development of COSÌ COM'È was a process of coming closer and growing, and it enabled me to tell our story from their perspective. The film, made in collaboration with my parents, gave us the opportunity to address our fears authentically. Through guided improvisations, we were able to evoke moments of great truthfulness with emotional impact.”

Writer
Antonello Scarpelli
Director of Photography
Stefania Bona
Editor
Pierpaolo Filomeno
Production Designer
Svenja Matthes
Costume Designer
Nina Brettschneider
Katja Schweiggl
Sound
Michael Arens
Sound Designer
Emil Klotzsch
Producer
Ingmar Trost
Roberto Cavallini
Thomas Menghin
Wilfried Gufler